blood pressure

well i have high bp, 150/110
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what could be reason

i am not a born leader

can someone tell all that i am not a born leader. though i am fully prepared to take responsibility of the leadership i cant always be a good leader.

some times i fail, i am mean some times, i get pissed off.

but i think overall i am learning.

leaders are not born they become,
morals are not just thoughts, but they the beginning of action.
being honest, generous and loving is not a one time activity to achieve it is life long process.
oh all understand this.

for some i a boss, for some i am manager, for some i am leader.

in my last 8 yrs i am yet see someone who is good to all. but i will strive to be.

dont eat sugar

i am remembered of the old story about the boy-mother-guru about the sugar eating habits of the boy and advice of the guru. This is the situation i am in. one of my collegeaus have been constantaly seeking my advice on managing relationships with his team and other. i can understand better, he is commited, passionate and expects this from others, when failed he gets upset and looses temper.

who else can better advice him than me????

well i am caught between the role of the leader(which is to advice him) and me as person (who is totally unfit to advice).

so far i have avoided direct advice, i have suggested a few names and training to attend